Year in Review for 2016

With just a few days more to the end of 2016, it’s only fitting to take things a notch slower and find time to reflect about the year gone by and do a review.

If you’ve been reading my blog, you’ll know that I’m big on being intentional and purposeful especially when it comes to my parenting journey. However, I find that I wasn’t as intentional as I hoped to be as I was often pulled in so many different directions by the demands of juggling between work and family life.

When Sophie started Pri 1, we had to make adjustments to our lives. My mum came over to stay with us on weekdays, we had to wake up early (to prepare Sophie for school), I had to be extra efficient at work so that I can knock off on time to spend time with Sophie, revise her school work before tucking her to bed. And even then it’s not the end of my day with chores waiting to be done and I’ll try to make an effort to catch up with my mum, my hubby and also squeeze out time for myself before repeating the cycle all over again from Mondays to Fridays.

I don’t know how other mums with 2 more kids do it, but it felt so exhausting and it was mentally draining, which explains why I cut down on blogging and prefer to have solitude time whenever I can.

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Teaching Sophie to play badminton, at Sophie’s Chinese drama performance in school and Music Run as a family

Work wise, even though my initial plans to work part-time this year didn’t go through as planned, I soldiered on as a full-time working mum with a mind set on making positive changes whenever and where ever I can. So despite some challenging times, work was more interesting as I felt stretched and learnt so much by being more curious and taking more initiatives to make things happen. Though work was busy with a few launch campaigns, I finally saw my work out on the streets and our work even won a couple of awards which I’m so proud to be a part of.

But more than anything, the friendship between colleagues deepened and we even went on a Malacca trip together where lil Sophie tagged along for our girly trip. She certainly brought extra vibrancy and sunshine to our getaway and she’s since been a regular at mama’s office during the school holidays too.

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Sophie tagged along for our girly trip to Malacca

This year, Alexis and I celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary and as a walk down memory lane,  we went to Melbourne where we honeymooned. The past 10 years has been anything but easy. I told Alexis that he’s no longer the same man that I married but for good reasons as I see a more dependable, responsible man whose love speaks louder in actions than with words. 10 years later, I still do.

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Back to where we honeymooned 10 year ago and this time with Sophie in tow

This year I focused on self care by reading more, going to the gym and got settled into a cell group in church. So while some parts of me still feels like I’m in the middle of a whirlwind at times, these things helped to feed my mind, body and soul, which I will certainly continue in the new year.
Going forward into 2017, I know there are some things I’ll need to cut back and even cull from my life so that I can advance. My health is certainly no longer what it used to be as well and I can’t make it for granted so blogging will take a back seat and another reason is to give Sophie more privacy as she gets older.
And yes, it’s back to more mindful and intentional living for me  in 2017 and another one I’m adding to the list is simplifying my life.
Feeling reflective?
Here’s a list of 50 questions to help you reflect, reflect and get excited about in the new year.
Here’s a list of resources to how to be more intentional in the new year which I hope you find them helpful.

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Merry Christmas from my family to yours

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Christmas Fund Raising for Angel Gowns Singapore

Christmas-the season for giving and spreading the festive cheer is just round the corner.

This year I’m making Christmas cards to support Angel Gowns Singapore started by a dear friend of mine, Rosalind.

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Repurposed bridal gowns transformed into Angel Gowns

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Volunteers from Angel Gowns Singapore learning to sew

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The tireless group of volunteers have been featured in the press where they have been blessing bereaved families whose babies sadly never make it home from the hospital.

These ladies have been repurposing donated gowns to make angel gowns or burial gowns for babies last journey to bring closure to the grieving families. It’s absolutely heart breaking for any family to go through the loss of their loved one and a baby no less.

The financial support will help them to cover their supplies cost so that they can continue to distribute the angel gowns to where it’s needed. So far, these gowns have been distributed to NUH, SGH and will be reaching more hospitals around Singapore.

You may read more about the work that they do at these links.

Angel gowns’ for grieving parents who lost their child young

Angel Gowns Singapore Helps Clothe Babies for Their Final Journey

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Do drop me a message if you’re interested to buy these cards at $5 each and I’ll send them out as soon as I can. Normal postage will be free for your generous support.

I’ll be updating my Facebook page for more designs, so hop over to view more designs at this link.

Thanks in advance for your support and have a very blessed Christmas.with your family and loved ones.

 

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KidsFest 2017 – Gruffalos, Ladybirds and Other Beasts with Julia Donaldson Giveaway

KidsFest 2017 returns bigger and better this coming January 2017, showcasing a total of NINE world-class productions adapted from best-selling children’s books including the brand-new Gruffalos, Ladybirds and Other Beasts show.

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Having ignited the imagination of young children worldwide, the talented Julia Donaldson graces the stage to perform at a brand-new show, Gruffalos, Ladybirds and Other Beasts.

With a delightful combination of the most iconic characters from five of her best-selling books – The Gruffalo; What the Ladybird Heard; Zog; A Squash and a Squeeze; Jack and the Flumflum Tree – this stage production is unlike anything you’ve seen before.

But what makes the show so much more special is the five-member cast which includes Julia herself, Malcolm Donaldson, her husband who plays the guitar and Julia’s sister, Mary Moore. After the hour-long show peppered with sing-alongs and audience participation, audience can look forward to meeting Julia in person at the book-signing session.

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In addition to the brand-new Gruffalos, Ladybirds and Other Beasts, not to be missed are three other classics by Julia Donaldson – The Gruffalo, The Snail and the Whale and Stick Man which are suited for young theatre goers ages 3 and up.

 

Where to Buy Tickets?

Tickets are now available at any SISTIC outlet, the official SISTIC website at, or at the hotline 6348 5555. Prices range from $42 to $62.

Please visit the KidsFest website or the official Facebook page for more information on the festival and productions.

 

 – – – – – – – -– – – – – GIVEAWAY FOR A JUGGLING MUM READERS – – – – – – – – – – – –

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Thanks to KidFest, here’s your chance to win a Family Package of 4 Category  1 tickets to Gruffalos, Ladybirds and Other Beasts with Julia Donaldson (worth $248) to a lucky reader.

Gruffalos, Ladybirds and Other Beasts with Julia Donaldson is recommended for children aged 4 to 10.

Date    : 20 January 2017(Friday)
Time   :
 6pm
Venue :
Victoria Theatre (Address: 9 Empress Place, Singapore 179556)

To take part in the giveaway, simply enter via the Rafflecopter widget below.

 

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Please note:

  • Giveaway ends on 17 Dec at 23:59pm
  • Only readers residing in Singapore is eligible for this giveaway
  • Winners will be notified via email and have 48 hours to respond to email otherwise a new winner will be drawn
  • Tickets are non-transferable and date/time of show cannot be changed
  • All false FB accounts will be disqualified from the giveaway

 

*A Juggling Mom received complimentary tickets to Gruffalos, Ladybirds and Other Beasts with Julia Donaldson. Photos are used with credits to ABA Productions.

 

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Doubletree by Hilton Hotel in Johor Bahru, Review

Whenever we head up to Johor Bahru, our hotel choice is always Doubletree by Hilton Hotel.  This 4-star hotel ticks all the boxes for us as a family friendly hotel for us, which explains why we’ve been a loyal fan and have even been recommending them to our family and friends.

You may have remembered that in my earlier post, I mentioned that we’ve gone carless, so a centralised and assessible accommodation is one of our top priorities.

Conveniently located just 10 minutes away from the Customs in JB, Doubletree is in a ideal location even if you’re making your way to the hotel on foot. Plus, the hotel is just a stone’s throw away to Johor Bahru City Square Mall and Komtar Mall, two of my must visit malls whenever I’m in JB.

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Doubletree by Hilton Hotel in Johor Bahru

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If you’re there to shop you wouldn’t be disappointed as both malls have lots of options for shopping like Pandini, FOS, Jelly Bunny, Uniqlo, H&M, Popular, Royal Sporting House, Dorothy Perkins and many other brands at more wallet friendly prices.

The two malls also have a wide selection of food choices like Old Town, Papa Rich, Seasons (like our Swensons), Kim Gary Dragon-I (think DTF) , Sushi King and many more to fill your tummies.

For those who are worried about the safety in JB, I’ld say that you need to always exercise caution wherever you are. Always stick to places you’re familiar with, avoid leaving your valuables exposed and don’t stay out too late especially with kids.

So far, we always feel very safe especially in the two malls that I’ve mentioned above (City Square and Komtar) and we’ve also gone further to KSL and Aeon Mall in Bukit Indah, which is closer to Legoland and Little Big Club.

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At the hotel lobby at Doubletree by Hilton

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The signature chocolate chip cookie upon check in

We’ve always received professional and great service from the staff at Doubletree and we have no complains on all our past stays with them. Upon check in, guests will be delighted by their famous warm chocolate chip cookie which is so comforting and inviting. The best kind of reception that definitely scores with any chocolate fan.

Comfortable Rooms

For our family of 3, we booked the King Deluxe room. The room is tastefully designed with a contemporary and modern look that so inviting. We like that the room is spacious, well-kept and clean. The bed and pillows are comfy and where a good night’s rest awaits.

Though they only have bath tubs in the suites (a major disappointment for Sophie), there is a walk-in rain shower with glass feature wall.

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And what’s a hotel stay without room service while enjoying a cable movie on the large screen TV? In fact, it’s something that Sophie always looks forward to when we go JB as we prefer not to stay out too late for safety reasons.

It’s usually not a problem eating in the room as they have a lounge chair and a side table just beside the bed where we can jump right into bed after dinner.

Food options 

On our last visit, we were upgraded and got to experience their executive lounge where we enjoyed pre-dinner cocktails and breakfast. The service staff was very attentive and promptly ushered us to a table before taking our drink orders. We were busy enjoying the food that I didn’t take any photos but it was certainly a nice experience and what a way to wow their customers 🙂

On our last day, we had our breakfast at Makan Kitchen on level 1 which offers international cuisine, so there’s something that will be right up your alley to fuel your day ahead.

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Though they have a wide selection of food to choose from, there were are hits and misses. But it’s certainly a fuss free option to opt for the buffet breakfast especially if you’re traveling with kids.

Food options near the hotel

However, if you are looking for local options, you can head to Amma, the Indian restaurant across the street for roti prata which is qute popular among the locals.

And if you don’t mind walking, you can take a 10 minutes stroll to Hua Mui Coffeeshop at Jalan Trus where you can sink your teeth into charcoal grilled toast with kaya and butter,  soft boil eggs, as well as Nasi Lemak.

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Digging into roti prata at Amma Indian restaurant

Amenities in hotel

If you’re like me and have a kid who looks forward to pool time, then head to level 13 where both the swimming pool and gym are at.

There is a small pool for kids at the end of the pool but Sophie is usually more keen to jump into the main pool. The size of the pool is pretty decent but I find that it can get chilly even before the sun sets. So we usually try to get out of the pool before 6pm and soak in the indoor whirlpool before dinner time.

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Since I started my workout this year, I’ve also been going to the gym and have made no exceptions even on my vacations. The hotel has a well equipped gym and I was impressed by their core centric training area where they have equipment that helps you work on your core areas. I just hope that they give some suggestions on how to use these equipment for noobs like me sinec they look pretty fun and I’m sure I could use with  some ab workout after all that eating 🙂

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Thread mill with a view of the pool

Review of Doubletree by Hilton Johor Bahru

Doubletree by Hilton has always been our hotel of choice when we head up to JB because of their convenient location. We have also tried Puteri Pacific, another 4-star hotel that is just across City Square, but it’s a much older hotel where the room are due for refurbishment.

A night stay is usually about S$130, that’s why we prefer heading up to JB instead of a staycation in Singapore where prices easily starts from S$200 a night.

Locstion wise, thought it’s only a 5-7 minutes walk to Komtar, I usually caution friends that there are roadworks along the main road (which has been going on forever) and you’ll have to jay walk to get across. Because of the roadworks, the main road is down to 2 lanes and traffic is usually not too fast. But for those with younger kids, or more than 1 kid, do be extra alert. We usually just hold tight to Sophie and I do my auntie thing to stop traffic while we dash across.

To get to places that are a little further like KSL or AEON Mall Bukit Indah, we usually use Grab taxi as we feel it’s safer than the meter taxis since youll have the record of the taxi driver who picked you and you can check your route via google map.

We’re always very satified with our stay at Doubletree by Hilton and in fact we’ll be back again for another short stay next week.

 

If you’re heading to JB, don’t miss these posts where I share some of my shopping finds and places to go cafe hopping across the causeway as well.

 

Doubletree by Hilton Hotel, Johor Bahru
No. 12 Jalan Ngee Heng, Johor Bahru,
80000, Malaysia
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Why we don’t like the school holidays 

While most school going kid look forward to the year end school holidays, my little girl has quite a different opinion about it. As a matter of fact, she even went as far as to use the word hate.

I’ve told Sophie that hate is too strong a word to use but she insists it’s the most appropriate term about how she feels about it and she’s not one to mince her words.

Just before the school year ended, I asked Sophie if she was happy to have a long break from school where she can indulge in all the reading and favourite cartoons she wants. But she told me she would much rather it be the school days as it would mean she gets to see us every single day.

The struggle for working mums is real

You see as a working mum, I have no choice but to have her at my mum’s or in laws place while I’m at work. Being a weekend parent is far from what I imagined myself to be during the school holidays and I know Sophie shares the same sentiments too.

Even though my mum is at our place on weekdays during the school term, I know she rather be in the comfort of her own at home where she can do her own things. I did consider sending Sophie to holiday programs or camps but the commute may not be so convenient for the gramps and I don’t wish to impose any of our plans on them too.

Since we don’t have any travel plans this school holidays, Alexis and I try to take a day off in a week so that we can take Sophie home earlier to spend more time with her. So far, Alexis has taken her to River Safari and she’s gone to my office last week but there still a month, a grand 4 weeks to go before school reopens.

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At River Safari with Daddy

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I’ll be lying if I said I don’t feel bad for sending her away and the weight of mummy’s guilt can be hard to bear especially when we bid her goodbye on Sunday nights.

Last weekend, we were on our way home when I got shoved with a pamphlet from a flyer distributor. Sophie’s eye widen when she took it from me and read that I could work part time and earn an high income and pleaded with me to call the number.

“Mummy you can call the number and tell them you want to work part time. If you work part time, then you can pick me after school and take care of me at home.

I was so tickled at how gullible my daughter can be to believe such a claim and I told her there’s no such job around. I saw her look of despondent and she absolutely crushed because I know deep inside she just longs for mummy to take care of her at home.

You may think it gets easier when they get older and go to primary school but it doesn’t.

At least not for me or for Sophie.

Now I’m beginning to hate the school holidays without Sophie around too….

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Someone came to mummy’s office last Friday

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Finally reunited on Thursday!!!

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