Motivational Mondays – Less Stuff, More Life

Over the weekends, I was at a friend’s new place. And like most new homes, their home was impeccably clean, neat and tidy. But the most striking thing I observed was how they have kept things to a minimum. Like almost bare minimum. And I must say, it was such a refreshing breath of fresh air compared to the clutter I have in my home.

I’m a little embrassed to admit, but I’m a hoarder. I keep ceral boxes and even toilet rolls thinking that I’ll use them for craft work with Sohie, someday… Plus I’m a huge sucker for pretty home decoration and knick knacks. I also believe that a girl can never has too many pairs of shoes and a wardrobe should be well equipped for just about any occasion. And it doesn’t help that I have itchy fingers that like to dabble in new craft projects every now and then. And as a result, my house is threatening to burst at the sides…

I got home that night feeling dissatisfied. Unhappy that I have filled my life with too much stuffs that don’t matter. And at some point, it even caused quarrels because I’m not the tidest person at home too.

And so for my 2014 New Year resolution, my new mantra is “Less Stuff, More Life“.

My hubby was more than happy when I shared this with him. I thought I even saw his thought bubble with a huge, “It’s about time!” complete with a huge exclamation mark.

Photo credits: Living well, spending less

While it may be early too New Year resolutions, it’s a good idea to think about what you want for yourself in the brand new year. I’m resolving to be intentional and purposeful with my life, time and energy. That would also means that I will have to say no to some things in my life so that I can make space for things that truly matter. I’m making a choice to do things that will add joy and contentment to eliminate stress and tiredness so that I can enjoy more life and go the distance.

Gifting the gift of an experience

And on that note, I’m doing something different for this Christmas. Instead of giving presents all wrapped up in a box and fancy paper, I’m choosing to give friends and family the gift of an experience. In our society, most people around me don’t need anything (though they may have plenty of wants). And I think what will make it meaningful is to gift them an experience be it a cooking class, a play or maybe even a meal lovingly prepared for them.

Here are some ideas:

• For a child, a membership to the zoo, or field trip. Even a membership at an indoor playground will be received.
• For a spouse, love coupons for a monthly or up it to weekly dates. Or how about a spa package that you both can enjoy 🙂 if they like the arts, then a play, musical, concert or even movie treat will be much appreciated.
• For a friend who’s a parent, a night of babysitting will be so so appreciated.
• For a coffee fan, a list of new cafes that have popped up so that they cna go cafe hopping.

And since Alexis’s birthday is before Christmas, he’s the first recipient of my experience gift! I can’t wait to surprise him with what’s in store.

Have you finished all your Christmas shopping? If not, perhaps you’ll like to rethink your gifts and challenge youself to think out of the box and give someone an experience rather than a wrapped up gift.

Do link up every Monday on what motivates you to be better. It can be anything from a fitness goal, or how you can be a better parent or spouse , etc. Share your recent posts and encourage someone.

Don’t forget to grab my badge and include it in your post after you have linked up and leave me a comment too. I host Motivational Monday every week and I hope that you can join me every Monday. Have a great week ahead!